So she decided to stop dating straight men.
“I wasn’t doing it for me - I was doing it for them,” she said.
“The things that I like to do in the realm of my bedroom are generally not things that straight men want to engage with,” she said.įor instance, she wanted to have threesomes with two men, but because she’s pansexual, men kept proposing threesomes with her and another woman instead. The man she’d been dating wasn’t satisfying her sexually. “When I started dating again, I didn’t want to really go about things the same way,” the 42-year-old sex worker told me from her New Orleans home.
In early 2020, Leigh Grey was in a funk: Her dad had recently died and her boyfriend had just dumped her.